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Family
Stories - China
The Gordon Family, TN

Grace with her Dad after being home 11
years!
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The Sloan Family, TN
Saturday (3/17/07) is our 4th year
anniversary of Gotcha Day (the day the orphanage
director put Savannah
in my arms). She’ll be 5 next month, can you believe it?
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The Sanderson Family, TN

The sweet and scary Sanderson
brothers! |
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The Mayhan Family, AL
Life is GREAT here in Huntsville and Anthony is adapting
very well. We've had a busy couple of weeks since we've been back
from China with a visit from my sister and a visit to my parent's home
in Montgomery.
He knows this is his home and was happy when we
returned from my parents. Anthony is learning English very fast and
will imitate anything you say. He knows the names of his dogs (both of
which he was scared at first, but now seem to be his best buddies) and
all the names of his relatives. He is such a joy to be with and I am
very blessed to have him in my life.
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The Trombo Family, TN
We are home now...and wow what a wild ride. The whole experience was
incredible
and the new adjustment to having a little one quite a challenge, however
I truly believe we have the most perfect, wonderful child ever. She
is highly intelligent,
bright, and funny (Sarah is 15 months and walking and running!)
FYI Sarah seems to be adjusting to our household quite quickly,
even with our dogs!
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The
White Family, TN
I thought I would send you a fresh picture.The Girls love fishing, Emili caught this one.Thanks for all you do and the CHI for helping make our lives
better than we ever thought it could be.
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The Smith Family, GA

Alyssa is such a cutie! |
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The Hewitt Family, TX

Here’s some pictures of Grace and Halli! A double blessing!! |
The Harpst
Family, AL
We've never sent a picture of Danna Faith, so we thought
her first kindergarten picture would be very appropriate. This is of
her first day going to K-2.
God has used CHI to
bless our lives with this little miracle beyond anything we could have
imagined. HE is getting ready to bless us again next year, since
we are LIDed for another miracle. Danna
Faith is getting excited about going to get her little sister soon,
Sarah Catherine.
Thanks to you, Brenda, and all your staff for letting God
use you to bring us these little miracles. Who could ever imagine what
they do for our lives - she just blows us away daily.
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The Chartier Family, LA
I am
just sending an updated photo of Matalyne. She is such a joy and
blessing to us. She has grown and changed
so much in what seems like such a short time,
Dec.5th 2004 to now. She will be three in November, but most
people think she is
older. She is so smart and so well spoken for a child that knew only
Chinese for the
first year of her life. She is taking Mandarin classes, she is in
swimming lessons and
has advanced to the “progressed 3 to 5 year old class,” she knows the
pledge of allegiance
by heart….. oh well, do I sound like a proud mamma……indeed we are so lucky and so blessed. We cannot thank Children’s Hope enough for
our whole experience.
We are a family, we have made lifelong friends, and gained treasured
memories from our adoption
experience. Thanks for everything. |
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The Martin Family, TN
One
year ago today, I met Margot
Yun Qian in Changsha at the
adoption center. A few
short hours later, I became
the luckiest mommy in the
world!!! This
year has been nothing short
of amazing. I have
posted some pictures of
Margot from A-Day and thru
this first year together on
her blog
www.martinmunchkin.blogspot.com
Also this past weekend I was
lucky enough to see eight of
the other families who
shared that magical and
amazing time in the Hunan
province. We gathered
for a reunion here in
Nashville. All those
little babies have grown
into toddlers! I
posted the mommy pictures
from the White Swan and from
this past Sunday on Margot's
blog, too. I am so
grateful for my travel
group. It is hard to
believe that such a diverse
group of people from across
the country can mesh so
well. We picked up
almost like it was just
yesterday that we were in
China. Of course, it
feels like it was just
yesterday!
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The Bonnema
Family, SC
Our
summer has been busily spent traveling to see family and friends and
introduce many of them
to our little Tessa Min Yong for the first time. So many people
accompanied us on the
journey through adoption to bring her home, and we have been excited to
share her
with them in the eight months since we have returned from China.
Tessa
spent her first 4th of July as an American in Williamsburg,
VA, surrounded by much
of our country’s wonderful history. Although she wasn’t extremely
impressed by the events
and festivities of that special day, she loved the chocolate animal
crackers that we found
in the historical district. We are sure that someday she will
appreciate the freedoms that she now has as an American.
While waiting for a flight during one of our trips, I met a man who
turned out to be a pastor
of a local church. He asked me if we had prayed for our “own” children
(no offense
was taken at this question, since none was meant). I told him yes, and
we were given Tessa.
She is the child for whom we prayed for so long!
We
have truly been very blessed with our precious little girl and greatly
appreciate all
those at CHI who were part of this wonderful event in our life! |

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The Brasher Family, LA
We
had a wonderful experience. Guangzho was our favorite city. Tatum was
wonderful from the
beginning. I am so glad our daughter Briley was there. She and Tatum
have such an incredible bond. Everyone we met were so kind. The hotels
were excellent. Transportation was good. Service was incredible.
Thank you all at Children's Hope for everything you did.
We feel so blessed to have had this opportunity.
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THE REDDING FAMILY, TN
(Vietnam & China)

Sisters Celebrating
the 4th of July!
SEELY (17 months,
China) and DARBY (5.5, Vietnam) |
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The
Longcrier Family, TX
Oh What a Blessing our daughter, Koi Li Page is !!!
We adopted her from Wuhan China.
We began our adoption journey almost 2 years before Koi
came into our family. We had known we were to adopt but didn't know
when, where and how. The Lord gave us a verse Isaiah 54:2 in the summer
of 2003. We began talking with our children. (we have 4 biological
children) We really felt God wanted us to pursue adoption at this point
in our lives. So we did. China would be the land from which we
would adopt. Many people were surprised that we would want to pursue
adoption with the cost and the fact that we already had 4 children. But
if God had placed it on our hearts, we could not stop. We are so
grateful to God for what he has done. God provided the resources, the
acceptance, and the GRACE. Thank you so much to Children's Hope and
their vision, care, and love for orphans.
We have been home from China about 7 months. It has been
an awesome journey. Koi is doing well and the blend of 5 is
incredible. We feel that we are the most blessed family. Koi is
running, talking, and eating everything. It is so fun to watch her
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The Davidson Family, TX

Madeleine is looking
pretty as a picture!
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The Morrin Family, TX

Sydney
Ann ...
Too Cute for Words! |
THE
HICKS FAMILY, TN
Emma Grace is
growing so much every day. She "sings" and "talks" all the time. We
have begun potty training. We are hoping to be potty trained by the time
she turns 2 in October. She is such a joy!! She is so funny at this
age now! She is always sharing her food and drink with her "babies".
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THE
FLANNERY FAMILY, TN
Elle Rose GanPoYu Flannery
was adopted on December 11, 2005
from the Jianxin Social Welfare Institute in Jiangxi, China. 
Our
trip was a lot different then expected. We had prepared ourselves in
many ways for this day. Throughout the wait, we had our ups and downs
of excitement. One day, I would be so excited I couldn't seem to get
anything done. I stayed on the internet looking at pictures of other
Chinese baby girls and chatting with other waiting parents. The next
day, I felt like the day I would have her was never going to come and
sometimes wondered if it would ever truly happen. It just seemed too
good to be true.
When the day actually
came that I received her picture, it was my late mother's birthday.
That was really special to me because my mother used to sit and watch
the television broadcast of starving children in other countries. She
wanted so badly to save them all. My sisters and I weren't starving,
but we were adopted.
Over
the years of our adopted lives, we, as most kids do, didn't know that we
had it good. My mother and father were of average income and we by far
were not rich. We didn't have the best name brand clothes, or my parents
didn't buy the junk food we all eat now. They were just average people
that didn't need material things to make their family work. I expect it
will probably take Elle much time to appreciate the blessings she will
be given as well.
When
my sister, myself and my youngest son went to China, we experienced a
whole new world. I experienced something that I could never fully
explain to anyone that had not been adopted. I realized at the moment
Gan Po Yu was put into my arms how blessed I was to have been adopted. I
looked at the face of this little Chinese girl and saw myself in so many
ways. There was a huge sadness I felt for her, but yet an enormous
amount of happiness too.
It
was on this trip that I realized what my adopted Mother and Father had
actually done for me.
The
sadness I feel for these children overwhelms my heart, but, I feel an
enormous amount of happiness for these little girls that so many of
us Americans impatiently waited and are waiting for.
I have read so many
books with stories about China. I have to admit, I felt angry about
what was going on with these children. But going there, made me realize
that I also feel a fondness for our little girl's mother country. These
people live without the luxuries of life that America allows us. Most
of these people walk where they want to go, heavily labor with their
hands and feet and some do business and live without electricity. It
was amazing to me.
I
decided after this trip, I would definitely raise my little girl with
nothing but positive thoughts about her biological parents. The
negative aspect of China and the rules and regulations will be there for
her to read. But since she will probably never know her story of
abandonment, the story I will influence will be of love.
On
December 11th, this little girl was actually put into my hands. The
emotion that was running through me was so amazing. My mind was so
jumbled and I was in a total state of shock. She barely cried and was
everything I was trying not to expect. She is a blessing from God! God
knew this was going to be my child and I knew that the moment she was
put into my arms! This little girl is definitely mine on loan from God
and I intend on doing the best I can for her throughout her life.
We
have a special bond with China and intend on going back someday. God
Bless all of you who take this amazing journey!
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THE BERGER
FAMILY, GA
We adopted San Wen
Jing on Nov 21 (gotcha day in Sanshui) - special needs cleft lip. We named her Lucia Dominique and she has been the
joy of our lives. She was almost 16 month at adoption and could not
walk. She walked within 2 weeks, is now cruising through the house, has
taken ownership of her new family, is loving, cuddly, active. She looks so different
with her repaired lip - she looked like a different child when I saw her
in the recovery room.
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THE REGISTER FAMILY, FL
Mikayla is doing awesome! She is crawling now well and has begun to pull up
and cruise. She will be walking before long. She has attached beautifully
to all of us. She adores her brothers and the feeling is mutual. We are
all doing well. Busy, but happy...and very blessed! She is a true joy and
blessing. Thank you for helping us make this journey.
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THE DUDLEY FAMILY, TN
We had Lauren dedicated
yesterday at church, in the white dress we brought back from
China. I think she's the most beautiful baby in the world but that's just
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THE AGEE FAMILY, TN
The
Children's Hope people in China could not have been better. They made
everything so smooth and enjoyable. The woman that was with our group for
the whole trip, Wendy, was so pleasant and helpful, above and far beyond
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THE THIERAUF FAMILY, TN
Without
your agency, and your supportive staff, regardless of who was that
particular social worker or specialist at the time, we wouldn't have been
able to make Natalie a part of our family. I can't believe how much I love
her and how unknowingly, unfulfilled my life would have been without her.
Every
time I'm tired or busy, I can now keep that in check, because I think of her
cute giggles or big bright eyes and it makes everything a little better,
everyday. |
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THE WILLIAMS
FAMILY, FORMERLY TN
10 years ago…
We're
close to our 10-year anniversary of becoming a family.
I thought you might like to know how Tessa is doing, since you played such
an important role in her life a decade ago. She had her adolescent growth
spurt last year (already) and constantly gets mistaken for a teenager --
which is to say that she gets
funny looks when she asks for a kid's menu at restaurants or asks for an
under-12 ticket price at the movies. It's not just that she's over five
feet tall, she's not at all gangly like other girls her age.
She swims competitively (in the summer) and plays basketball (in the
winter), draws, and loves analysis of any kind. Show her a masterpiece in a
museum and she'll make a list of the different colors used and how many
times they show up in different parts of the painting. I caught her
rearranging my kitchen drawers the other day into a more logical order.
Yes, she loves math and science...reading she can do without, even though
she's in the advanced reading group at school. Her two favorite things are
her cat Charley and her iPod. She has friends at school, church and swim
team -- no one special yet, but her teacher says that she has the ability to
mix and match in any social group and setting. She's so easygoing and
confident that it amazes me -- May the good stuff last all through
adolescence!
Thank you for all you did to bring this amazing girl into our lives, and for
creating our family. |
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THE STOVER
FAMILY, VA

Avery has been a
blessing to us, and we hope to adopt again.
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THE LYONS FAMILY, FL
Not
knowing a soul who has experienced foreign adoption we started
surfing the internet and came across CHI. Shortly after contacting
CHI the information started pouring in. With the suggestion from a
church member, we also contacted the local branch of FCC (families
with children from china) and were soon surrounded by dozens of
beautiful Chinese children and their loving adopted "Forever
Families". We began to truly believe that we could someday be one
of these families.
The "paper-chase"
sounds awful at times but was actually a fun experience running to
the post office before it closed to meet an emergency overnight
deadline then enjoying a victory dinner out while waiting with
anticipation the next stage & becoming DTC.
Even upon arriving
in China, CHI had their China coordinator (Sabrina - WE LOVE YOU
SABRINA) and local guides (Judy & Mary) who met us at the airport.
These super people remained nearby with the transportation,
paperwork and contacts for everything we needed.
We now have our
Michaela Elizabeth home and couldn't be happier. We have become one
of those "Forever Families".
Thank You to Mrs. Brenda
Barker and everyone who worked with us and for us.
Randy, Renee and
Michaela Lyons
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
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THE McHENRY FAMILY, FL
We
are so blessed to have Meisi Li (Lei Qing Yue) as part of our forever
family. She is such a beautiful and happy baby. She has already made such
great progress in just one week: from starting to crawl, eat from a spoon,
and becoming acquainted with our dog and cat. From the moment we saw her
precious eyes and heard her little laugh, we knew that this little girl
would make a dramatic impact on our lives and the lives of our family and
friends. We would like to thank God, CHI, and the coordinators in China
who made the trip most memorable and enjoyable. Our hearts go out to those
children left behind who may never have a forever family, especially those
in China. Our one prayer is that other loving families consider
international adoption to complete their forever families. We are more
than willing to answer any questions of those families who are considering
international adoption, in the process of adoption, or would like to hear
more about our journey to China to adopt our daughter.
For more
information on the McHenry’s adoption, go to
www.brianmchenry.com/meisi
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
bmchenry@tampabay.rr.com |
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THE STATON FAMILY, FL
Nicolette (Yi Wen Luo), is great, she's 18 months old, and very healthy.
So far all her medical stuff is turning out perfect, and she is adjusting
well. It couldn't be going any better.
She sleeps all night,
takes a nap, eats solid foods, says a few English words, and is potty
trained. She does have her moments, but seems mostly related to just
being a toddler. |
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THE RILEY FAMILY, TN
We
are doing really well. The trip was great and everything went off without
a hitch. Our group in Nanchang was large (20 families!) but we made some
good friends. Our CHI guides were great and we felt they sincerely cared
for all of us and our new daughters. Settling in to life in Nashville has
been an adjustment but compared to others in our travel group, I think we
are lucky. It only took Sarah about a week to adjust to this time zone and
she has been sleeping (most of the time) through the night. She eats
really well, in fact, I am absolutely amazed at how much she eats in a
day. She gained 3/4 pound in 10 days, bringing her up to a whopping 15
pounds (she's 10 months old, it's not on the growth chart yet).
We really are enjoying parenthood and are so thankful for everything you
all did to get us here.
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
kristen.riley@vanderbilt.edu |
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THE MERRITT FAMILY, TN
Our little Megan Grace is a true
blessing. She is so sweet
and so good!!
We are so thankful for her.
She was definitely worth the
wait!!
Of course the pictures don't do
her justice. She is
absolutely beautiful!!
If you are
interested in contacting this
family, you can send
an e-mail to
kissandmel@aol.com |
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THE McAFEE FAMILY, TN
Our journey to
China was a
long one. Not the airplane ride, though that seemed endless, but the whole
process from start to finish for us as a family. We are a blended family
with 6 bio children from our previous marriages.
These children's ages range from 15-21, that means three in college and
three teenagers. Whew! Why would we want to add another mouth to feed, another
child to add to the family payroll? So many people have asked us that-
aren't we tired? Sure, some days we are tired, but family and parenting
are what keeps us alive. We thrive on our children and their very
different personalities and characters. But we knew our family wasn't
complete yet.
Two years ago we started researching Children's Hope International as a
possible agency to go through to adopt our daughter. Frankly, I didn't
feel the need to look much further as the staff and programs they offered
seemed to fit our needs.
The next year we submitted our application and were accepted as a
potential adoptive family. We knew positively we wanted a daughter, but
from China, or Russia? Our hearts kept calling us to China. After
plugging away at what seemed like endless paper chasing, we were closing
in on completing the
required paperwork for the home study. I started researching special needs
and spent more than enough time on the computer joining several related
adoption groups. Something kept tugging at my heartstrings to look into
the special needs of these children on waiting lists. Could we handle a
"special need" daughter? I surfed the web and "chatted" online with other
moms of waiting children. My husband Rick was suddenly on board to
consider a minor or correctable need of one of these children.
In January 2004, I knew that CHI would have a new group of waiting
children listed. I was glued to my
computer that day it finally came up. I clicked on several faces, but kept
coming back to one child whose eyes seemed to be calling to me. It was a
girl, born in 2002 with a cleft lip and palate. Her lip was repaired, and
she was gorgeous. I nervously called Brenda Barker to inquire about her.
She called Tina in St. Louis for me and called back to say, "She's
yours!!". What? I had a daughter???? I was so excited-but realized my
husband was unaware of my "acceptance" of this child! I e-mailed him her
picture and asked what he thought of her. He said, "she's wonderful!" and
we called our entire family that night. Our hearts were full of
anticipation, hope, and wonder. Never once did we question our decision.
Months later, on July 9, 2004, we left for Kunming, China in the Yunnan
Province to get our daughter. Kate was brought to us at the Civil Affairs
office three hours after our plane landed. I was a nervous wreck, but once
we saw Kate, we knew she was our daughter. That long wait was over.
Kate has attached to both of us as her new mama and baba despite having
been in a foster family in China. She must have been very loved for she
gives and receives affection quickly. She is very generous, full of
sparkle, and truly a bright child. She loves to imitate all of us, and has
learned pretty fast how to communicate her needs. There is always someone
around to pick her up, feed her, play with her, and watch in awe as she
conquers her new world.
It is without a doubt
that this child was meant to be ours, and we are humbled that God chose us
to be her parents. We also give much appreciation to the staff at
Children's Hope both in Brentwood and St. Louis. We are forever grateful
for their full attention to our family for helping us to be granted the
referral of Katherine Jiao Merritt McAfee, known as Kate, into our lives.
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
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THE WYGLE FAMILY, TX
We are having a great
time and Kira has been sleeping through the night for 4 nights now. She
slept 12 hours last night. Kira is an absolute sweetheart and Noah loves
her. I am attaching a photo of her getting her teeth brushed while Noah
is hanging out with us. We are so blessed to have the family we do.
Thank you and everyone else at CHI for making this possible!
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can
send an e-mail to
wygle@integity.com
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THE PARKER FAMILY, AL
We heard Zoe laugh for the first time about a week after we were
home. Such a lovely sound. She is a joy and great fun, unless
she is mad. She is a strong and strong-willed child. And of
course, we think she is very smart.
Thanks for helping us get our adorable daughter.
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
lgwparker@aol.com |
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THE KEENUM FAMILY, TX
Chloe is
incredible. Every single
prayer we prayed for her was answered. An amazing
testimony to our wonderful Lord. I could just tell you story after
story of how great it is going. She is bonding with us and came right
to us. She is sleeping 12 hours each night, eating tons of food, is
happy, loves to play and loves her brother & sister. She seems to
know I am Mommy and right now prefers me above all else. :) Just
love that part. It's back to the business of trying to cook, do
laundry, and bathe other children all while holding Chloe! Oh, the
joys of motherhood. (Did notice that my right hip has begun to stick
out all the time even when I'm not holding her.) This has been an
incredible experience. Thanks for all the help. Anna was wonderful
in China. What a sweet spirit. So loving and gentle. I cried when
we left and she was crying too!
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
mkeenum@prodigy.net |
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THE KING FAMILY, TN
We made it to China safely. Amelia is a beautiful little girl. She
is very healthy and seems to be developmentally on track. She is
walking and they said she can climb stairs. Although she hasn't
wanted to show off her skills, as she wants to be held all the time.
We had a
couple of rough days with her crying a lot. She must have been really
attached to her caregiver. She has started to come out of her shell.
This morning at breakfast she was waving to everyone that walked by.
She has quite a personality and is truly amazing.
It is so amazing to be here in China. The hotel we are in is
wonderful and our guides have taken care of everything for us. We
have visited Yuelu Academe, an embroidery factory, a village - and
actually walked through the rice patties, Orange Island, and a primary
school. Changsha is a very interesting city.
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
thekings1997@yahoo.com |
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THE McGARY FAMILY, KY
Thank you all for
your support and guidance through the adoption process! Just wanted to
send you a few pictures of Ali Zhen! She is a doll! She is adjusting
tremendously - better than I could ever have imagined! Thanks again
for all you have done - I totally love this little girl!
Kellie
McGary
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send
an e-mail to
kellie_mcgary@mindspring.com |
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THE DWYER FAMILY, TN

Kelsey had her ear tubes put in on Monday of
this week. While we had a miserable experience preoperatively she is doing
very well and bounced back right away. She is really beginning to talk up a
storm - hopefully with her improved hearing and speech she will get caught
up in no time. She is now 20 months old and weighs in at a whopping 22 lbs
[still hanging on to the 10%ile in weight].
Katrina's last soccer game was today - her team won again! She
won't start up again until mid-March and will play on the same team as she
did this Fall. She enjoys it and man she is in good shape!! Katrina is 6
yrs 4 months old, 44 lbs and 45 inches tall now and she loves first grade!
If you are interested
in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
dwyerka@comcast.net |
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THE BRYSON FAMILY, KY
It's Anna on her first
birthday. She had a big time. I don't know but I think she might be a ham.
Love,
Rachel
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
rnrna@wmconnect.com
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THE NISTAD FAMILY, TN
On this day seven years ago, We got our
beautiful China Doll. Thought you might like to share in our joy!!!!!!!
Dreams come true, thanks to everybody for all the help in making
such a wonderful gift from God!!!
Mel, Frank and of course Tylee Xian Marie Nistad
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can send an e-mail to
halfcrk@dtccom.net
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THE BUTLER FAMILY, TX
These are our
daughters Kylie (3 1/2) and Jacy (18 mos). Kylie was brought into our
family on Aug. 18, 2002 and Jacy on Feb. 28, 2005. They are both from
Hunan Province (two "Chili Pepper Babies"!). Both girls adjusted
beautifully to us and to each other. China definitely worked overtime
in the matching room for us - both times!!! The girls are great
friends and life-long sisters! Thanks to CHI for everything!
If you
are interested in contacting this family, you can
send an e-mail to
rkkjbutler@msn.com |
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THE RYBZYCK FAMILY, TN
Sunday,
we flew to Xian, where we were to arrive around 1:00 and then meet our
children at the hotel around 3:30. As fate would have it, our plane was
late, so at 3:00 we were all sitting in the lobby of the hotel waiting to
check in......AND all of these women walked through the front door of the
hotel with babies in their hands. Needless to say, everyone went kind of
crazy to rush over and find the baby that was meant to be ours. 10 Asian
infants when you are highly adrenalized basically just make your head spin.
I did not have any trouble with seeing Jake, and when I went over to him to
say "hi," he looked right at me and smiled very big. What a welcome. We
all rushed upstairs, threw our stuff in the room, and then hurried to a
meeting room where a small ceremony took place in about half hour's time.
We then left there with Jake in hand, and my heart in my throat. It was the
most amazing whirlwind of activity that culminated in a major life-changing
event that you can even imagine.
Jake didn't sleep too much last night. NOT because he was crying - he just
wanted to play and look around and have me walk him around. If I put him in
the crib and left him alone, he would start to cry. Otherwise, we had a
blast. So, the final tally was about 2.5 hours of sleep. Today, we went
downtown to complete registrar and notary paperwork that is part of the
legal process. This involved a lot of sitting in a waiting room; the time
in which Jake caught up on all of the sleep he missed last night - and the
part where I became really tired, but so thrilled by the feel of his breath
on my neck as he slept so peacefully.
Things are going SO much better than I ever thought they would. Jake and I
have connected so much - and Nini (grandmother in Chinese) keeps him
laughing constantly! We are having a lot of fun. We have gotten him to say
"dada" even though he doesn't know why he is saying it.
This morning as I was running around getting ready, I kept hearing echoes of
the voices of many of you who have said, "you will never be on time for
anything again." Oh my gosh, you were right! There is so much to do just
to get out the front door. I hope I get better at it as time goes on.
I have learned a few things myself:
a) Never, never, NEVER wear a beige shirt after feeding Jake - carrots are
particularly hideous after being regurgitated. In fact, I think I am going
to burn all of my beige shirts immediately upon return to Nashville.
b) I might as well get laser eye surgery now, because my glasses are a
temptation that cannot be resisted his little hands.
c) Sometimes, I can forget the expensive toys - the free cardboard insert
inside of the latest shirt that we bought provides almost as much
entertainment - although without the educational value.
Oh my goodness, he gets sweeter and cuter every day. I had bathed him
before (obviously), but last night I decided to try a different plan - to
get him in the tub early when he was full of energy and wanting to play
instead of when he was winding down. Well, I can tell you that paid off.
We had so much fun - there was water EVERYWHERE as he learned to splash
himself and splash Daddy - he didn't care that his face was all wet,
either. As long as he could continue the flurry of activity, he was happy.
He was cracking me up - my Mom got some video footage, so I can look back on
it in days to come.
So, what to tell you about Jake? We continue to have so much fun as we
learn about each other and discover what makes each other laugh. After he
sneezes, I always say, "God Bless Jake" and he just giggles so much. Then,
I will fake a sneeze, and that makes him laugh more. He loves peek-a-boo,
and he loves to be really active. Throwing him up in the air or spinning
him around on the bed while he is lying down are big hits. He hates waking
up in the morning (like his Daddy), and he gets really fussy when he is
hungry (like his Daddy again). He doesn't say any words yet, but it is
clear that he has a sharp mind - he remembers games that we play, is
learning to respond to his name, and can easily anticipate things he doesn't
like - such as a kleenex headed towards his runny nose.
Jake is a playful boy and smiles a lot. He doesn't crawl or walk but sits
up just fine and seems to have a lot of strength. He has two little teeth
in the bottom center front of his mouth that he uses a lot - to bite me or
whatever might be close. He babbles a little - I can tell he wants to talk
more than he can. He communicates a lot, though - he knows how to push
something away if he doesn't like it without a doubt. He will pick up
anything in site to explore it, and is ticklish. He actually reached his
arms up to me today to pick him up. At that point, I would have given him
the world if it were mine. So, bottom line is - we are getting along
great. Our bonding is going so much better than I imagined it would - he is
pretty friendly to everyone, but I am slowly seeing that he is starting to
prefer me - as he should. He is cute, fun, funny, interesting, curious, and
all of the things that make little boys adorable. I love him so much
already.
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