The Kramer Family Jamie, Tandalaya and Kara Kramer

On July 17,2006, in Yopal Colombia, Kara Tatiana came into our lives. That was the best moment ever!! We were blessed with a little piece of heaven. Kara was hand picked. It’s unbelievable how perfect she is for us.

It’s now November 17,2006. Four months have gone by fast. So far, the time with our daughter seems surreal. The love and bonds that have been created has made these 4 months feel like “always”.

Our adoption journey began in January 2005. Kara was born April 2005. The adoption process is long.  There is nothing short about it.  Before we got Kara, we wished for a rush in the process. Now that we have Kara, with four months gone by, our need for the process to be rushed has faded away. We realize that the long process is a tool to be used. Ever since she came into our lives, love has grown. The love we have for Kara and each other has grown with each new day. It feels like she has, somehow, “always” been a part of us. 

Eight years of desire for a child is now a reality. Kara has brought a new happiness to our entire family.  Empty places have been filled.

Not everyday is wonderful and lovely. We are first-time parents to a very confident little girl. There is so much to learn. Communication (not a language difference) is our key issue. It’s amazing a couple of almost 14 years can forget to talk when a fabulous little third party comes in. Taking care of Kara, playing, learning behaviors and teaching new ones has become our highest priority. We forget to talk about our days, our feelings, routines, eating habits, new words/ actions, etc. etc.. Communication is a great stress reliever, confidence builder and strength rejuvenator.  Being new parents is, kind of, like teaching an old dog new tricks. HA! HA!

Choosing to adopt has been an amazing journey. Children's Hope helped and encouraged us every step of the way. Our family gives a huge hug and many thanks to Children's Hope for their faith, knowledge and strength. 

Best wishes to every family,
Jamie, Tandalaya and Kara Kramer